tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3107146.post112875278457222463..comments2023-08-13T07:56:06.968-04:00Comments on Idiosycratic Life: Darn you, OprahChunky Photojournalist Barbiehttp://www.blogger.com/profile/11646004753295087957noreply@blogger.comBlogger3125tag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3107146.post-1129086150285187702005-10-11T23:02:00.000-04:002005-10-11T23:02:00.000-04:00As a "problem grudge-holder", and I'm REALLY tryin...As a "problem grudge-holder", and I'm REALLY trying to work on it, Alissa's definition would mean that I would have to stop wishing that the office building of Den of Bitches, Inc. would somehow explode in order to forgive them for making my life a living hell which consequently spiraled me into a depression where I never answered the phone, never went out, and gained 40 pounds after my wedding.Anonymousnoreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3107146.post-1128825594950787902005-10-08T22:39:00.000-04:002005-10-08T22:39:00.000-04:00Hm. Yeah. I was recently asked for forgiveness f...Hm. Yeah. I was recently asked for forgiveness for Something Big, and I actually looked up the definition of forgiveness. I did not want to confuse forgiving with excusing. And the one definition that I found that I really liked was "letting go of the desire for revenge and personal ill will." Ok, I can do that. I like Oprah's line, too, but I don't know if that's how I would define Alissahttps://www.blogger.com/profile/16350669178036114083noreply@blogger.comtag:blogger.com,1999:blog-3107146.post-1128760395983156002005-10-08T04:33:00.000-04:002005-10-08T04:33:00.000-04:00Letterman. Oscars. Forget the year.I WIN!!Letterman. Oscars. Forget the year.<BR/><BR/>I WIN!!Anonymousnoreply@blogger.com